I didn't think I needed to clarify...

So, I guess I need to clarify....

Someone today put the following deductions together.  And not in this particular order:
I chose to be a single mother by in vitro fertilization
I don't wear jewelry very often
I am not dating... so I must be a lesbian.

Okay, now I realize that this person did not know me during the 9/10ths of my life that consisted of before I had a child and doesn't know that I love being feminine and ladylike, but guess once again I need to clarify...

I am a heterosexual.  
For all those who really know me, you know that I enjoy dating.  I chose to be a single mother for reasons that are not anyone's business, but I would give a lot to share that with a man who I love and trust with my son.

I don't wear jewelry because I am not married (no ring on my left hand), my son pulls off my earrings and it hurts like hell, and necklaces usually get torn from my neck, and my wrist is too fat for bracelets.   I wear one ring because my mother gave it to me just before she died and I love it.

Also, I am not dating because I am trying really hard to be here for my son.  I am lonely.  A lot.  I am desperately lonely, but I am not desperate.  I love my life and I love my son.  I have always planned on doing  this alone, but I would love to change that plan should the right man come along.

Everyone clear?  Thank you.  I will get off my soap box.